i teach you how to get the data you need early

so you can get to the right relationship...faster

MEET THE FOUNDER //

Hey! I'M keleisha lashaye

i was the cliche of what was leading men to choosing wrong, being burnt out & tired of dating.
i wanted commitment but i was:
  • blaming men when i was triggered
  • constantly bringing up the past
  • making men guess my needs and then resenting them when they didn't meet them

Until I started healing and doing the work. 
I went to therapy, did a lot of self-reflection and repairing relationships, got deeper into my faith. I faced myself, my patterns, and all the things I had avoided in my past.

I finally got to the point where I became the woman who was ready for a relationship. Not perfect, but I now have the skills and green flags that matter when you are in a relationship. The things that can make or break connection long after the honeymoon phase wears off. 

Now, it's my mission to help men recognize the difference to be able to see beyond a woman who may look good on the surface. so they can have healthier, more fulfilling relationships.


I was not a peaceful, safe space for men to land.

Now I combine all of that (my training, my own journey, and the insight from being on BOTH sides) to help men see what they've been missing early on, bridging the gap to one the most important relationships in their life.

I was always fascinated by what makes relationships work and the dynamics that determine if two people are truly compatible. But understanding it intellectually and LIVING it? That's a different story.

so I hired my own dating coach when I realized my relationships kept ending the same way. I wanted one badly but something wasn't working. That's when I learned: I was the problem. i wasn't a bad person, but I wasn't READY.

My clinical mental health counseling background gave me the tools But my real education came from doing the deep work on myself - facing my patterns, healing, and becoming the woman who was actually ready for commitment.

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WORKING WITH ME:

I'm Not Here to Sell You Hype

I'm not going to promise you'll find your person in 90 days or  tell you there's a magic formula. What I WILL do is walk with you every step of the way. I'll help you get in proximity to your ideal woman and refine your approach as you go. I will give you the clarity, tools, and support to make sure your next relationship is aligned, healthy, and built to last.

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I'm direct and I'm honest. I'm not going to sugarcoat things or tell you what you want to hear. If you're missing red flags or you're over-investing too early, I'll make you aware of it. My job is to help you see clearly  and make more conscious choices, not keep you stuck in your previous patterns.

This Is high-Level, personalized Support

I'm not just giving you a framework and sending you on your way. I'm with you through the process - reviewing profiles, debriefing dates, helping you vet in real time and that includes support in-between sessions. And if you need dating ideas, style suggestions, or help planning something thoughtful, I've got you. This isn't just about vetting. It's about showing up confident and intentional in every part of dating.You're not doing this alone.

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WHAT IS IT

WHO IT'S FOR

Most men wing it in dating, letting things unfold naturally and waiting to see what happens. But that's how you end up months in realizing she wasn't ready.

I teach you how to get the clarity you need upfront. How to ask the right questions, create the right moments and see who she really is early, not months later when you're already emotionally attached.

We work together to make sure your next relationship is with a woman who's emotionally mature, aligned with your vision, and ready to show up as a true partner.
And it's not just about vetting. I help you show up confident and intentional - from refining your profile to planning thoughtful dates. This is high-level support. 

this is private coaching where i'm with you from first match to exclusivity and beyond

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  • You're a professional man (30-50) who's ready for a committed relationship.

  • You've worked on yourself to heal from your past and built a life you're proud of.

  • You're done dating women who seem right on the surface, but aren't emotionally ready.

  • You are looking for depth and longevity in your connections but you don't want to spend 2-3+ months realizing she's not ready for the level of partnership you want.

  • You are ready to invest in finding a woman who honors everything you've built.

This personalized program is for you if:

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