Before I became the Transformation Architect: I was the strong one. The one who held it all together, even when everything inside me was unraveling.
I spent years performing my way through life-doing the healing work, checking the boxes, showing up in every role I was “supposed” to play. But beneath the surface, I was disconnected from myself, burnt out, and stuck in cycles that insight alone couldn’t fix. This performance led me to jail...three times. Yeah, talk about triggering when you are playing Monopoly and land on “Go to Jail-Do Not Pass Go. Do Not Collect $200!”
But all of my experience is what led me to build the work I do now—rooted in self-leadership, nervous system safety, emotional integration, and real-time embodiment. No fluff. No bypassing. Just the kind of deep alignment that finally lets you feel like your life is yours so you can not only get clear on who you are without the noise-but also love and care for her in the way that for so long has been how you treat your loved ones and those around you without:
neglecting yourself
emotional depletion
needing to fall apart to be seen
I’m not here to give you another breakthrough that doesn’t stick. I’m here to walk with you as you become the version of you who no longer needs the breakthrough to feel free. It is your time to build peace, power, and clarity from the inside out. Let's get to work!
If you’ve done the work but still feel emotionally off, mentally overloaded, unclear on who you are or just unsure how to move forward- you’re not alone. These are the patterns I help high-performing women untangle every day.
You're healing and achieving, but still feeling like you're 'behind.'
Small choices- like what to eat or whether to rest- feel overwhelming.
You're either all-in or completely tapped out. No in-between.
You're still moving, still showing up-but behind the mask you’re running on fumes.
You just know this version of
life isn't it.
You have the insight but still can't seem to break the loop.
You analyze, spiral, and talk yourself out of what you know is right; you second-guess yourself and look to others for answers.
You keep putting others first-even when it costs you (time, peace, money, energy, etc).
You know what to do- but you don’t trust your decisions until someone else agrees.
You feel like you need to earn rest through exhaustion or illness.
You have this yearning desire for more but can't quite put your finger on what 'more' is.
You are the strong one for everyone else, but secretly crave that level of support for yourself.
If even one of those truths felt like yours- you’re not the problem. You’re just ready for something deeper. Something built for you that works with you.
Let’s talk about what that can look like.
You will get more than tools- you will get real-time transformation that affects how you show up in life, love, and leadership.
This looks like you:
Feeling emotionally grounded even when life is life-ing.
Reconnecting with your full self- without guilt, shame, or self-doubt.
Learning how to make audacious decisions from clarity and alignment.
Actually living the peace and clarity that you have performed for so long.
Building the kind of inner safety and stability that no one can take from you.
This is what most high-performing women are missing because they’ve been taught that performance equals progress.
But insight without integration still leaves you spinning.
In this space, we bridge the gap between what you know and how you live.
We bring together grounded mindset work, nervous system regulation, and emotionally present support—so your transformation doesn’t just sound good on paper, it shows up in your decisions, your boundaries, and your energy.
This is the part that changes everything.
Rebuild & Rewire
Identify and disrupt high-functioning survival patterns.
Build emotional clarity without needing to overanalyze everything.
Make aligned decisions without spiraling into overthinking and overwhelm.
Learn how to stop fixing and start trusting yourself.
Rewiring the thoughts that keep you performing instead of living- from surviving to thriving!
Release and Reclaim
Regulate in real-time so you can choose differently- no app or perfect environment required.
Learn how your body holds old stories (and how to let them go).
Build internal safety so you can rest, say no, or be seen without panic.
Reconnect with your body as an ally and not just a productivity machine.
Because your nervous system needs to feel safe for the rest of you to truly
feel free.
Rhythms & Rituals
Use personalized tools that match your season and energy, not override it.
Implement rituals that bring clarity, calm, and self-trust into your daily life.
Build a soul-aligned support system- even from scratch.
Create the structure your nervous system needs to thrive (without losing your freedom).
The right tools. The right people. The right pace. All working with you—not against you.
Michaela B.
Ashley M.
I'm already in therapy. Wouldn't coaching be too much?
Not at all. In fact, many of my clients are still in therapy and also choose coaching because the combination helps them move further, faster. Therapy is powerful for healing the past. Coaching adds the proactive, real-time integration they were missing—so they can stop just processing and start living aligned. I myself have a therapist, am in school for Clinical Mental Health Counseling, and have coaches myself! I practice what I preach!
What can I expect in a session?
Each session is grounded, personalized, and spacious. We’ll begin with what’s real and present for you right now. From there, we’ll use the tools, frameworks, and nervous system support within the Soulful Success System™ that best match your energy and intention that day. This work is responsive-not rigid-and built around you.
Will this help with my career, relationships, or personal goals?
Absolutely. My clients have seen shifts in their communication, emotional regulation, boundaries, clarity, relationships, and even income. Because when you get clear, everything around you starts to align.
How long is the program?
This is a 6-month minimum commitment. This isn’t about rushing breakthroughs—it’s about building new patterns, nervous system safety, and identity alignment that lasts beyond the coaching container. That being said, many of my clients go beyond and choose to continue to work together as they sometimes find they want continued support with the new levels of transformation they unlock.
This call is a no-pressure space to get clear on whether this work is the right next step. We’ll talk about where you are, where you want to go, and what support can look like along the way.
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